Getting Unstuck: If You Do What You’ve Always Done…
I’ve got the life I want. Last year, I moved to the beach, I work from home, I have flexible hours, I work part-time and spend several mornings a week at a coffee shop, reading, writing, and chatting with other locals. I have a saintly husband and a sweet, funny son who brings daily joy and surprises. I have multiple furry creatures around for loving on–and keeping my feet warm. Life is good. Damn good.
But like a counterweight, although my life is going along swimmingly, I am intellectually and vocationally stuck. I’ve been doing what I do for a long time and in various iterations. And I’ve been arguably successful at it. But I feel like I have stopped learning. I have stopped growing. I have stopped being challenged by what I do. I hear the little girl I used to be whining to my mother (as I so often did) “I’m B-o-o-o-r-e-d.”
So as a first step to getting unstuck (and as I often did when Mom glared at me over her glasses following my plaintive cry), I’m reading books. Not just any books. Books that address the way of life (and work) that I have come to love: multipreneuring. That is, doing a lot of things simultaneously and independently. Kind of like freelancing, but with various different kinds of things–speaking, writing, teaching, whatever else comes along. And I have started (appropriately, I think) by re-reading the appropriately titled Multipreneuring by Tom Gorman.
I first read it in 1999 when I was working as a lawyer/association executive/adjunct college faculty member. So it didn’t so much change my life as validate the way I was living my life. It is still as pertinent today as ever.
Which makes me wonder: do other people feel stuck? Like they want to change their lives or careers or both and aren’t sure how? Or where to start? Are they just scared? Or do they not know what to do? And is there a way I can help those people while I’m helping myself?
I end with this thought (which I will explore more thoroughly another time)…again, because it is so pertinent to my situation: “Just because you are good at something, doesn’t mean that’s what you should do.”
Carpe getting unstuck!