It’s almost New Year’s Eve here and so of course I’m thinking about my new year’s resolutions. And all the resolutions that came before and were not achieved (or were – but mostly not). Which makes me realize that I need to frame my New Year’s Resolutions a bit better.
So this year, I am not going to make my new year’s resolutions…
- To lose weight (although I need to)
- To exercise regularly (although I need to do this too)
- To be less stressed (although I desperately need to be)
- To travel more (although sometimes I want to)
And so on…
Instead this year, my New Year’s Resolution will simply be this: to be a better me.
- To be a better professor to my students. For any students reading this: that doesn’t necessarily mean easier or higher grader. But it does mean trying really hard to come up with new and improved ways of conveying information with the end goal of helping you gain knowledge and experience that will help you in the “real world.”
- To be a better wife. My husband is a saint and does far more than his share of everything…well, everything except shopping for our son’s clothes. He hates that.
- To be a better mother. Everyone has gifts. Patience is not one of mine. Having a child has not improved that. Fortunately, one of my gifts seems to be acting completely silly, so that helps.
- To be a better friend. I am not a great friend. I prioritize a number of things (including all of the above, as you see) above being a friend. I want to be a better friend, whatever that means. I hope it means happy hour once a week with my friends, but we’ll see.
- To be a better professional. I love the field that I’m in and I enjoying speaking, presenting, and training. But after a while, it becomes easy to “phone it in.” And that happens when I start getting bored. So this year I’m going to figure out how I can provide something the industry needs and be true to my own interests, too. No compromises.
Stay tuned for improvements to be made.
Carpe the new year.